The
food items included within my “meal” are personal lunchtime favorites that I
eat on a regular basis. The question that remains is my reason for consuming
them. One safe assumption is that I enjoy these foods for their delectability. Another
explanation is that I live an active lifestyle. Due to this, I prefer to eat
standing up and on the move. That certainly explains why I eat packaged, easily
transportable foods such as these. I’ve also noticed that my closest friends
share similar lunch items. Could I be eating these foods simply because my
friends do? Or is it the brand that gives them some type of value?
This is a good start, but there must be
an underlying reason for why I enjoy the foods I do.
Growing
up, my parents took the responsibility of preparing my lunch throughout
elementary school. The “menu” usually included: a sandwich of some sort, fruits,
chips, applesauce, and a dessert like treat such as cookies. I was also
provided a juice box. My responsibility, as instructed by my parents, was to
eat the entire meal and not share with any of the other students. I was also
instructed to eat my food items separately and in a specific order. I was required
to eat the main item first (the sandwich), then the sides (the fruit, chips,
and applesauce), saving my cookies for last. These mannerisms were practiced
both at school and within my home.
This
form of discipline is similar to that exhibited by nursery school teachers in
Japan. In Anne Allison’s article “Japanese Mothers and Obentos: The Lunch Box as
Ideological State Apparatus”, she discusses the strict tone assumed by the Japanese
teachers when monitoring the children during lunchtime. It is the duty of a child
to consume the entirety of his or her homemade meal in a rapid, efficient
manner that doesn’t impede the progress of the other children. Failure to do so
results in chastisement from the teachers to the dissatisfaction of the child
(90). Luckily for me, my parents didn’t take as critical an approach when
constructing their rules as these teachers. Their rules were more practical in
the sense that my parents simply wanted to ensure that (1) I was receiving the
nourishment my body needed, and (2) I was practicing frugal customs. These
mannerisms became incorporated in my habits and are still in practice today. They
became a part of who I am, and have even translated into other areas of my
life. I am a very organized and detail oriented person. This is true in manners
regarding education, work, and simple day-to-day living.
Is
it possible that the culture orienting my food choices has helped to shape
other traits and decisions within my life? Possibly. And who’s to say that my
habits aren’t rubbing off on others? Maybe I choose the foods I do because I see
others incorporating my eating habits into their own. Anne Allison said that “culture
constructs both the world for people and people for specific worlds” (82). Culture
shapes an individual’s identity and continuously influences the choices that
they make within their lives. I’m no exception to this. Even though I’ve added
new items to my diet, I still save my sweets till the end.
I'm intrigued by your comment about your food fitting your on-the-go lifestyle. It raises a set of questions that we can consider in class about the mobility of our food: how and when and why that comes about.
ReplyDelete(Sorry, thought I posted this earlier): You pose some interesting questions about the relationship between what your parents taught you vs. what may be the influence of friends. You mention that your parents were "more practical," but after our class discussion do you think the Japanese parents are being practical from their standpoint?
ReplyDeleteI feel that the Japanese parents, from their viewpoint, are being practical. The same can be said for my parents. I didn't agree with their methods, but, in their minds, their practices were reasonable.
DeleteI also had a similar structure when it came to bringing my lunch to school (my mom packed mine everyday as well through my grade school experience). It was really clever how you tied the rules of the grade school packed lunch to the Allison reading. I never really thought of it that way, but at least we didn’t have someone watching us to make sure we ate it all. Though the parents packed lunch does have its practical purposes by requiring you to eat the dessert last (you may get full from the dessert and not eat the things that are good for you). I don’t really see a practical purpose for the children eating all of the obentos except to prevent waste. P.S. Those strawberries look amazing!
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